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"Summer camp is more than a vacation for children," says
Bruce Muchnick, Ed.D., a licensed psychologist who works extensively
with day and resident camps. "As a parent, there are a few
things to consider to increase the opportunity for a rewarding camp
experience for your child." Some helpful suggestions provided
by Dr. Muchnick and the American Camp Association include:
Consider camp as a learning experience
This is an opportunity for your child to explore a world bigger
than his/her neighborhood and a chance for you and your child to
practice "letting go." Letting go allows children to develop
autonomy and a stronger sense of self, make new friends, develop
new social skills, learn about teamwork, be creative, and more.
This time also allows parents an opportunity to take care of themselves
so that they will feel refreshed when their child returns home.
Prepare for camp together
Decisions about camp — like where to go and what to pack
— should be a joint venture, keeping in mind your child’s
maturity. If your child feels a part of the decision-making process,
his/her chances of having a positive experience will improve.
Talk about concerns
As the first day of camp nears, some children experience uneasiness
about going away. Encourage your child to talk about these feelings
rather than acting on what you think his/her feelings may be. Communicate
confidence in your child’s ability to handle being away from
home.
Have realistic expectations
Camp, like the rest of life, has high and low points. Not every
moment will be filled with wonder and excitement. Encourage your
child to have a reasonable and realistic view of camp. Discuss both
the ups and downs your child may experience. Your child should not
feel pressured to succeed at camp, either. The main purposes of
camp are to relax and have fun.
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